Clem: "We have a big bully at our school. His name is Caleb. Everybody is scared of him, even the big kids. He's the biggest bully in the world."
My Mom: "What does he do?"
Clem: "He hits people and stuff. He's SO mean."
My Mom: "You know Clem, we should feel sorry for him."
Clem: "Feel sorry for him? Why?"
My Mom: "He's probably very unhappy inside. He's probably a bully because he's unhappy."
Clem thinks about this for a moment, then shakes her head.
Clem: "Nope. He's happy, all right. Mean, but happy."